I am a Mid
thirty something Male, mostly Het, vegetarian, aging hippy, musician,
electronic engineer, yada, yada. I have
been in Poly relationships for about 15 years, and out with others and myself
for about 5. I live on a small, forming
intentional community in Western NC. My
Interests include hiking and camping, ethnic food and cooking (love a great
curry), music, live sound mixing and recoding, electronics, Rainbow Gatherings
(my main passion), wood working and working with my hands, alternative energy,
micro-water plants, intentional community, cooking, middle eastern
"community", Ren Fairs.
I live in
Asheville NC because it is the only place in the country I have been where I am
just me and it is the way the town is. I don't have to fight to be me in a town
of folks who are not like me. I love the strong community feeling of this town
and the size is perfect. Big enough to
have what I need and to play, small enough to be more relaxed with great
camping and mountains close by. I have
been here about 15 years.
I am
currently involved with one live in primary and one long distance secondary
(mostly secondary because of distance) for about 4 years on each.
I'm
looking for local, confident, secure and stable people (couple or individuals)
interested in similar activities who want to cut loose and enjoy life and the
bonds of deeper family. I seek people
who want to connect in the interest of forming deeper connections and
community. I want this community to
feel free and safe to form loving bonds with a depth and honesty to others and
ourselves. This means that we can be as loving, or not, as we feel comfortable
with each other, living in the truth of the connection with no worries about
societal norms or not. This does not
mean that I seek sexual connection with all who are part of my community, but
it does mean I wish to cut though the BS and connect at the heart with
all. More specifically I am open to
other het or bi women or couples (M-F or F-F) in my life as well as interest in
other open communities that are poly-alternative friendly. I am more interested in meeting couples that
fit in well with the values and life of my other partners than I am in meeting
single individuals. I am still in
search of a good local community with a low "flack factor" that looks
like it can last to buy into.